{"id":2323,"date":"2026-04-11T07:00:43","date_gmt":"2026-04-11T11:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/schooladvancement.com\/?p=2323"},"modified":"2026-04-09T13:26:45","modified_gmt":"2026-04-09T17:26:45","slug":"your-school-is-a-community-not-a-group-of-individuals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/schooladvancement.com\/?p=2323","title":{"rendered":"Your School is a Community &#8211; NOT a Group of Individuals, and NOT a Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The decision to enroll a child in your school is an emotional one.\u00a0 Logically, school administrators know it is the right decision &#8211; but the only way that parents will realize it is by coming to that realization themselves.\u00a0 This is where service and vision are related &#8211; getting parents excited about the vision regarding where the school is headed, allowing the school to serve them by helping in their child&#8217;s formation.<\/p>\n<p>It seems that every year at this time, schools are incredibly worried about enrollment for the coming school year!\u00a0 So many things that cause significant worry combine to lead one to a persistent state of anxiety, and, unfortunately, that mindset then pervades the things we do as part of our every day tasks.<\/p>\n<p>First, remember that Jesus told us not to be anxious.\u00a0 Second, remember the words of Saint John Paul II when he became the Bishop of Rome &#8211; &#8220;Do not be afraid.&#8221;\u00a0 Third, when it comes to growing enrollment, the first step to increase enrollment is to keep the enrollment you have.<\/p>\n<p>When current parents in your school\u00a0start making decisions on their own, in the privacy of their home, enrollment starts to deteriorate if they decide to disenroll\u00a0their children because of &#8220;what might be.&#8221; \u00a0Even if they believe times are bleak now, they may very well be\u00a0much <em>better<\/em>\u00a04 months from now when school begins again.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, when you&#8217;re preparing tuition invoices or your financial aid award letters, consider distributing them <em>in person!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A personal conference-type setting can reassure them and offer that hope.\u00a0 This way, parents can express their anxiety, and receive reassurance that the school will do all that it can to address demonstrated financial need. This is the opportunity for the school to show parents that you&#8217;re all in this together.<\/p>\n<p>If your monthly invoice\/payment reminder is handled by a third-party company, then you&#8217;ll definitely want to generate financial aid awards before tuition payments start.\u00a0 Of course, if your school can&#8217;t give parents their financial aid information until some point <em>after<\/em> school begins, you may be finding your school&#8217;s enrollment is declining&#8230;and declining enrollment means your parent community is eroding, which is detrimental to your school&#8217;s word of mouth marketing efforts.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, if your financial aid provider only processes financial awards after all tax documentation is submitted, and you can&#8217;t even get an idea about what a family qualifies for until the end of July or the beginning of August, you&#8217;re enrollment growth efforts are most likely significantly hampered.<\/p>\n<p>Meeting with your parents is a way to build community, since community is formed when individuals come together for a particular purpose. Hundreds of parents acting as individual families demanding that their needs be met before they commit is nothing more than chaos &#8211; and, frankly, it&#8217;s been how the majority of faith-based schools have operated for the past several decades, and why school administrators get so stressed when dealing with tuition.<\/p>\n<p>Over 40 years ago, it was accepted by parents to be told what to pay (if anything) and they sacrificed to do it or be able to do it.\u00a0 The problem is that we&#8217;ve spent the past 40+ years with the same expectations, not realizing that Baby Boomers were not the same as members of the Great and Silent Generations, and then also not realizing that members of Generation X really don&#8217;t have an appreciation of how the action of one affects the life of the entire community.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s even not a stretch to say that Generation X parents really didn&#8217;t care about the fact that they were part of a community, because they were focused on the educational experience &#8220;my kid&#8221; had.<\/p>\n<p>Today, a new generation of parents &#8211; The Millennials &#8211; are the dominant generation in the PK-12 market vertical.\u00a0 Millennials realize the importance of community &#8211; but your school&#8217;s revenue structure will play a significant role in whether or not they&#8217;ll be enrolling children in your school.<\/p>\n<p>Their communities are different from the ones of the past, too.\u00a0 They&#8217;re not neighborhood communities &#8211; they&#8217;re online ones.<\/p>\n<p>Setting up individual parent meetings to discuss financial expectations may sound like a lot of work &#8211; and it is.<\/p>\n<p>However, it gives your school&#8217;s parents the individual treatment they crave, as well as offering a teaching moment.<\/p>\n<p>During these meetings, your role is to tell parents how important they are to the continued success of the school, and their recommendation of &#8220;their&#8221; school to &#8220;their&#8221; friends will help build your school&#8217;s community of parents, guardians, teachers and students.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s better to put time and effort into this exercise and know what you&#8217;re facing, rather than just sending award letters home, and hoping parents return in the fall.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, hope is not a strategy.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a promise rooted in faith and supported by love.\u00a0 It&#8217;s all three &#8211; together &#8211; inseparable &#8211; just like another trinity we&#8217;re familiar with.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;d like to know more about why your school community shouldn&#8217;t be considered to be a family, send an email to <a href=\"mailto:schooladvancement@gmail.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">schooladvancement@gmail.com<\/a> with the words &#8220;Why not a family?&#8221; in the subject line.\u00a0 Part of your school community can be considered to be a family, though.\u00a0 Can you guess which part?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a9 Michael V. 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